Episode 58

The Forces that Drive Narcissism and How Unhealed Childhood Trauma Manifests

Published on: 17th June, 2022
“Codependency is driven by a lack of identity” @yourrelationshipreset

Unhealed childhood trauma manifests into people pleasing, codependency, and empaths basing their self worth outside themselves leading to a dangerous and vulnerable emotion state to be in with a narcissist.

"You have this deep wound and it triggers you and it upsets you and you spiral and you feel like crap. You feel like nobody loves you. That's NOT true. And all you have to do is focus on loving yourself." - Raven Scott

Today I share my new revelations on what I've been tying my self worth up in.

And I have an inkling, as a victim of emotional abuse from a narcissist or toxic persons, you have or are doing this too.

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Narcissism is a conditioned product of lack of emotional development, and at the same time it is a trait we all contain within us to be self centered.

But the difference is, do you choose integrity and empathy over "the dark side" of throwing others "under the bus" to boost one's self esteem.

Here are some key moments:

  • Forces that drive narcissism
  1. Emotional neglect in childhood development
  2. Spoiled and entitled in early childhood and throughout life
  3. Forced into an adult role as a child
"Trauma doesn’t make you an asshole" @narcabusecoach Danish Bashir
  • How empaths are conditioned to be codependent and seek self worth outside themselves
  1. No freedom of mind autonomy in crucial formative pubescent years
  2. Childhood bullying
  3. Lack of emotional tools provided by parent / caregiver

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The Forces that Drive Narcissism and Codependency: 3 Reasons Empaths look for self worth outside themselves

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Raven Scott is a survivor of an abusive relationship with a narcissist. From people pleaser to kick ass author, podcaster, & mentor, she is a certified meditation teacher and Destiny Coach. She teaches you how to shed people-pleasing patterns one step at a time to find your power & potential through healing so you can kick ass in THIS life. Her focus is to help you tune into your soul’s healing, learning & purpose with intuition, meditations, North Node Medicine & Human Design. Join her in soul-filled podcast community on Facebook. Women Empaths Self Development to Unlock Your Destiny