Episode 98
Healing the Throat Center after Narcissistic Trauma: Human Design Throat Center
What is your authentic voice here to share??? That the Narcissist has tried to suppress?
In this episode, I share how to win an argument with the Narcissist and, reveal what your Human Design throat center means if it's white, colored, and what those numbers mean.
Empaths and sensitive individuals often experience deep wounds in their ability to express themselves authentically after enduring such trauma. We explore how understanding the Throat Center in Human Design can be a powerful tool for healing and reclaiming your voice.
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So you found your human design chart, you see all these different shapes
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:on there and you go, yay, I'm so excited.
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:What does this mean?
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:So today I'm going to be covering the
throat center and the numbers that are
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:circled in your throat center define
what you are here to speak about.
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:So let's dive into this today.
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:Welcome back to the empath and
narcissist podcast where I share
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:messages about spiritual healing from
narcissistic abuse with human design.
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:Because I believe your karmic
experience has awakened you to
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:your authentic soul, you just need
the map to call your power back.
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:I am your host, Raven Scott,
and I'm an author and trauma
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:informed spiritual mentor.
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:Raven: In human design, the
throat center is a vital energy
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:that governs communication.
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:Just like it's related to the throat
chakra, self expression and manifestation.
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:Nothing can come into being unless it
is informed and spoken into existence.
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:So it serves as the bridge between our
inner world, our thoughts, inspirations,
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:ideas, and the external reality,
influencing how we express our unique
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:selves to others in relationships and
about projects, how we want to be loved.
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:What we are here to share as far
as ideas and within the throat
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:center There are several gates each
representing a specific aspect of
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:communication and expression Those I
will be covering in the membership.
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:I'll save that to the end.
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:But today I wanted to cover What does it
mean when you have an undefined throat
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:center having an undefined throat center?
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:Looks just like this.
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:Briefly, I will share with
you what you speak about.
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:I have a graphic here you can
read this what you speak about
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:on the blog at Ravenscott.
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:show and your undefined throat
center looks just like this.
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:If you're listening on the podcast,
you can watch the YouTube video
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:to take a look at the graphics.
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:So the throat center is a third one down
from the top, and it is a white square
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:when it is undefined, but there are
circles or purple circles coloring in at
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:least one of the numbers in the throat.
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:That is technically an undefined
throat center in the human design.
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:It can both be , a
blessing and a challenge.
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:And this configuration means
that you amplify the voices and
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:energies of those around you.
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:You often feel the pressure to speak up
and communicate, even when you might not
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:feel entirely ready or sure what to say.
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:So you may be that person who's filling
in that radio silence because you're
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:feeling the pressure to fill in the gap,
which sometimes can be good in awkward
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:social situations and other times not good
when you just need the space to be quiet.
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:So with this undefined throat center,
instead of meticulously planning your
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:words in advance, Your design actually
is talented at and is gifted at trusting
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:in your innate wisdom and saying things
off the cuff, depending on what and
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:who you are amplifying in that moment.
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:And your intuition will tell you this.
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:That's why it's important to practice
your strategy and your inner authority.
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:By leaning into your strategy, you and
authority, you can discern when the
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:time is right to share your insights
and express yourself authentically,
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:allowing your natural flow of
communication to unfold organically.
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:So when you do this, it honors your
unique interacting with the world,
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:emphasizing the following your
strategy and responsiveness over
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:the social norms of premeditation.
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:And this can be tricky when you are
dealing with a toxic person or a really
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:difficult Conflict or a narcissist, you
might think, well, I need to premeditate.
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:I need to be prepared.
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:I need to have all the answers.
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:, but like , I have loved saying
lately is if you want to win
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:with a narcissist, don't play,
you don't need to say anything.
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:So with your undefined white throat,
you feel the pressure to speak.
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:Your communication style.
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:influenced by the environment.
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:So just go with the flow.
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:, you can speak in a variety
of different voices.
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:You can mimic who you're talking
to depending on the situation
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:or the other person, and you may
feel powerless to take action.
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:You and others close to you can't
always predict what the what
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:will come out of your mouth.
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:That's another thing
because you're amplifying.
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:It's not consistent.
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:, you just are always
surprised by this person.
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:So to thrive with the undefined
throat and the open throat, which
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:I'll cover , a little bit later.
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:To thrive with this undefined throat,
instead of feeling like you always
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:have to speak, instead of feeling
powerless, instead of feeling, , like
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:you don't know what you're going to say.
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:And it really frightens you, especially
when you're dealing with someone
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:toxic that you're interacting with.
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:Get comfortable with the silence,
get comfortable with saying nothing
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:and wait to be asked to speak.
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:And that is where the magic lies.
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:The next one is your defined throat.
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:So that third center down from the top,
if you have this throat center colored
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:in, it usually is always brown, the color
doesn't matter what color it is colored
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:in, that's why there's different charts
with different colors, that doesn't
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:matter as long as it's colored in,
then you have a defined throat center.
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:And this signifies a surrender.
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:To your inner authority, guiding
you on what to say or do.
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:So it suggests a natural flow of energy
that allows you to express yourself
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:confidently and authentically trusting
in the clarity of your communication.
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:So build on doing hard things, your,
, discipline and your self confidence.
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:Then building upon your self, , esteem
essentially to feel confident
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:and authentic, trusting yourself
that you are communicating
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:what you need to communicate.
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:And sometimes you're channeling messages
from source through your throat, , either
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:if it is open and you're doing it through
the amplification or if it is defined and
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:doing it consistently within yourself.
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:So when you have a colored N, you have
a consistent way of expressing ideas.
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:You can speak when you need to and
maybe feel moved by the spirit to do so.
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:You're using your inner authority,
remember, and also your strategy.
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:If you have a motor connected, well,
number one, you're a man gen, you're
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:a manifesting generator, but you can
take Consistent action after informing.
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:So the motor that may be connected to
your throat through a colored line,
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:called a channel is, , the heart, which
is this center, just this tiny triangle
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:down below the diamond to the right.
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:If that connects to the throat
or the solar plexus, the bottom
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:triangle on the right connects
to the throat or the sacral, the
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:second up square from the bottom.
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:When connected to a motor center,
it can feel the impulse to talk
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:and do too much, too much power,
too much doing, too much, right?
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:There's motors pushing, pushing.
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:So just be mindful of that as
well and step back and observe
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:and say, do I need to say this?
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:Does this need to be said right now?
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:Is this really necessary?
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:And then delete that text or delete
that email or bite your tongue, right?
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:So, when also connected to the
Ajna, which is the triangle, upside
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:down triangle just above that.
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:Or the G center, that diamond
just below the throat.
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:You can have a tendency to babble
on and not listen to others.
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:And, , if you're not listening to
your inner authority and you're not
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:using your strategy, when people
ask you, share, don't worry, don't
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:worry about being too concise.
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:But if you are not being asked or you're
not being invited in, and you're just
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:babbling on about something, people
zone out, they won't listen to you.
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:Okay.
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:And it won't be productive in your
communication and in your relationship.
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:Now, this may happen a lot with
a narcissist because they don't
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:tend to invite opinions in because
that's scary, that opens up to how
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:they have to take responsibility.
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:So what you may find is as you
practice using your inner authority
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:and your strategy by waiting to
respond or waiting to be invited,
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:depending on what type you are.
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:And you're in authority,
like, does this feel good?
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:Should I say this?
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:Yes or no?
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:If you're sacral or emotional, if
you're emotional, how does it feel?
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:You'll find yourself not
actually communicating.
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:When you're responding to this because
the narcissist won't be inviting you
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:in you may be responding But you're
responding to something negative.
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:So our inner authority kicks in and says
is this something I really respond to?
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:No This is negative energy, right?
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:So you actually find yourself not
communicating with this toxic energy
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:Just by following your strategy and inner
authority and that therefore plays into
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:if you want to win with a narcissist
You know Don't play, don't talk, don't
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:interact, don't argue, don't say anything.
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:So this next one is completely open,
no gates to find throat center.
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:The third center down here,
it is white in this image.
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:Also you can look at the graphics
on the blog at Ravenscott.
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:show.
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:So for those with a completely open
throat center, surrendering to the inner
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:play with the outside world is key.
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:trusting the time and flavor
of your relationship or the
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:activity and expression.
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:This openness allows for a fluid
exchange of energy with others.
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:So if you're really good at
surrendering and waiting.
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:For the action, this is magic and it's
really emphasizing the adaptability and
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:responsiveness to the present moment.
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:This is key being in the present.
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:If you have a completely
open throat center, you must
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:practice being in the present.
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:Don't plan ahead.
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:Don't fear the past.
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:Don't think about the future.
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:Be in the present.
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:Because again, that's
where the magic happens.
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:And I've witnessed this
firsthand in my husband.
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:He has this and he is the
most eloquent speaker.
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:He is the most dynamic speaker.
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:He is the most amazing salesperson
that you can even imagine with anyone
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:he interacts with because he has
harnessed the, the comfortability of not
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:speaking when he doesn't need to speak.
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:He is.
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:A man of very few words, yet when
he does speak, he is utilizing all
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:of those talents and amplifying the
energies to achieve whatever task
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:he's at or communicate something
with me or the girls or whatever.
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:He knows what to ask in the moment.
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:He knows when to ask it.
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:And he delivers such an amazing mic
drop when he's presenting ideas.
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:I see it in his story and
his coaching our daughters.
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:I can imagine how incredible
he was in the courtroom.
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:Like there's all these different talents
that you can have, no matter what.
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:We're doing in your life, whether
it be work, whether it be in a
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:relationship, whether it be with your
children to be able to really lean
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:into the present moment and amplify
what is needed to be asked or said.
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:It's beautiful.
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:There's no, he thinks about it
a lot, but there's no rehearsal.
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:It just comes out in the right timing.
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:So I want to encourage you if
it's open and you have nothing,
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:that doesn't mean that you are
not here to speak about nothing.
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:You are here to speak
through a channeled source.
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:You are here to speak inspiration
and , ebb and flow in the present
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:moment with the energy around you,
energies that you're dealing with.
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:So the gates and channels in the
throat, , this is going to be
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:something I'm diving deeper in, in
the episode today for the membership.
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:So if you want to understand how does this
a supply to me, what does it mean when
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:I have, when I have gate 15 highlighted
and it being red, what does that mean?
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:And why do I see gate 15
over on the left in the red?
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:So this is something to
really take a look at.
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:You can't see it in the visual because
it's all the way at the bottom, and I've
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:cropped the bottom of the chart off.
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:I could use another example.
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:Gate 8 is also in the throat
center, highlighted in this chart.
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:It has a red line, Going down
towards the G center and it's next
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:to the moon over here on the chart.
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:So that's what I'm diving
into today in the membership.
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:If you want to learn more about all
the gate descriptions and how they
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:interplay and give you that flavor
of what you're here to speak about,
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:what your authentic voice wishes
to share and really is here to do.
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:So then you can learn about that
in my book , about each gate.
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:Empath's Guide to Rising Strong.
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:You can grab your paperback there and
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:If you'd love to learn more and
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:you, this is what I'm here for.
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:This is why I've created a membership.
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:And just to give example, I have so many
gates, , defined in my chart, but the
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:one that really resonates with me is
the one that brings community together.
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:And that is gate 35 31.
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:I also have as well to, you
know, serves in a democratic
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:leadership role and 45s leadership.
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:The 35 is this, , community.
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:My voice has an authority to teach, to
share and to bring people into community,
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:hoping to bring all of those who are
healing from narcissistic abuse, , to
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:heal spiritually and by understanding
your unique blueprint, your unique energy.
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:To bust out of the lies and the
conditioning that the narcissist
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:is trying to keep you down.
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:The darkness is trying to keep
you down, but your human design
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:chart shows you your light.
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:It is your flashlight to break
free from the narcissistic, toxic,
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:social, societal conditionings.
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:And I'm teaching you how to do that
in your chart in the membership.
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